Gentlemen,
Last Sunday, I visited the seller of a used M88/3 cylinder head somewhere in Germany. I didn't buy it on the spot as I found three spots of which I was not certain. Despite the advice of a fellow board member I didn't take it with me directly but took some pictures to have them assessed by an engine repair shop before making a final decision.
From an operational point of view, the cost of the trip is higher then the asking price of the head so I could have bought it unseen. My only risk was that I would receive a crap head which is not usable and loose some money. Hypothetically, I could have sold it through the 'bay of e' afterwards but I am not a person to do that. Nevertheless, the engine repair shop that I consulted (and who will rebuild the engine in the upcomming months) gave me enough confidence so I took the plunge and bought it last week. I expect it to arrive in the upcomming week.